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THE WOUNDED SELF
How to work with Hysterical Defences & the Histrionic Personality
The HISTRIONIC personality adaptation exhibits an addiction to drama. Acting-out is used as a way of protecting against feeling-in. The primary defence is dissociation. Artificial feelings are used as a shield against deep, real feelings. Addictions such as drugs, alcohol, compulsive spending, eating disorders, promiscuity, love affairs, and fantasies of “one day my prince will come” also provide protection against memories and feelings too painful and shameful to bear.
In the HISTRIONIC personality there will frequently have been some form of sexual abuse. The seductive father creates rivalry between mother and daughter. Abuse can be “passive” where the daughter is used as a fantasy sex object; or “contact abuse”, where some form of sexual behaviour is acted out by the perpetrator.
The therapist needs to accompany the client back through the exploitations of childhood, supporting her in dismantling defences and vindicating herself from blame, in order to arrive at a point where she can think clearly and replace the longing for another with the longing to be herself.
This workshop will enable you to:
Understand the developmental origins of the exploited child
Recognise and identify defences, addictions and relationship behaviours
Learn to work with sexual abuse
Help the client to change the locus of control from external to internal
Help the client in constructing a non-dramatic cohesive self
This is a 1 day workshop. The next date for this training will be on:
Friday, 12 April 2019
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Coleby Centre, Sidcup - 1st Floor, 2 Alma Road, SIDCUP, Kent DA14 4EA
Easy access from the A2 and A20, 30 minutes from London Charing Cross/Cannon Street to Sidcup train station